Marrying a

Younger Man

Marrying a younger man.  There are several types of woman who do this.  Let me tell you what I mean.

Firstly, you have the cougars, such as Joan Collins, the sexy vamp type, the diva, the one who can earn her own money although she may have been with a rich and generous man before.  She dresses well, she is very positive, she does not act her age but she also does not dress like mutton dressed as lamb. She has style and she has elegance. She talks nicely and she is interested in the same things as a younger person.  She may go on a lot of holidays, drive a flashy car,  collect handbags,  have a decent bank balance, maybe own her own business or have a very well paid career or job,  she is not desperate for a man to look after her in any practical way although she may have been in the past.  She sees life as being about fun.  She is unlikely to ever clean a toilet,  peel a potato, change a nappy.  If she can afford it she avoids anything like that and just relaxes.  She sees men as being vital to her life and she values a man with good looks who is well dressed and presentable with charm and panache.


Then you have the more matronly housewife type who probably works in a boring job or does not work at all and has no real skills.  Her personality is quite ordinary, her looks and dress sense is ordinary. She might even be frumpy.  But she is older and therefore younger guys might presume she is experienced and keen on sex.  They are probably wrong because she is not that keen usually.  


A typical woman will always prefer the first type - the diva, but maybe end up with the ordinary one instead simply because the divas get a lot of attention and can be more fussy. Keeping one of these young men interested after marriage is difficult for them.  The guy is often wanting adventure, excitement, lots of sex, lots of fun.  He may work his way through money very quickly and he gets bored quickly. So a woman who can re invent herself and be exciting all of the time can keep him on his toes and keep him interested but the other type has no chance of it lasting happily if it is important to her that he is faithful.


There are several ways to look at this. You can either get together with him and enjoy each day as it happens with no thought to the future and then be grateful for whatever time there was.  Or you can get together with him and worry all the time about how long it will last and when he will go off with someone more exciting and youthful.   If you are extremely sexy and with it  then you can get together with him and call the shots.  If you are one of those sugar mummies who is with someone who is wanting you to take care of them financially and not so much interested in you then only you know if this is acceptable to you and if so you can use this to call the shots too. Do remember that when a youngster is keen on an older female it is usually all about sex. They are not interested in finding a wife or moving in with someone or helping you with your problems.  Turn to us - your private consultation now.  Alternatively for something at no charge go to  help /support     and   bulletin threads.


Marrying a younger man.