Marraige advice column.  Most of our regular readers come to this site for help with dating, marriage and relationship problems. Any one of these situations can be very upsetting but when a marriage goes wrong and people need marriage advice that can be worse. There are often family problems, housing issues, children, family, work, money and other things to think of that make it more complicated. It is not uncommon for a woman to feel trapped in her relationship because she knows that she has no feelings for her husband and wants to leave him and there is no chance of it ever turning out happily, but she has nowhere to go, no job, no money, no support from anyone. Our qualified expert team get a lot of people consulting us about this.

 

Some instances where women need expert advice on dating,  romance, their relationship or marriage..

 

If a woman is married to a man who often lets  her down, drinks a lot, gambles, is violent, takes drugs, refuses to work or pay the bills, then she has a huge problem because she cannot just click her fingers and get the husband to become responsible and loving, nor can she just end the relationship instantly. If she is pregnant or has young children or has pressure from her family to stay with him then things are even worse.  There might be financial problems or it may be that she has to totally rely on the husband to look after her materially and financially, maybe she is unable to work because she is looking after a baby or disabled.  This means that she cannot always follow her heart and do what she wants to do emotionally and has to put practical issues first.  She can do sensible things such as making sure she does not get pregnant by an irresponsible man or a man she wants to leave and she can make sure she gets a job or starts saving money for when she is able to go.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Serious problems include when the wife realises her husband is cheating on her but feels she still loves him despite this.  Or despite wanting to leave there are religious or health reasons where this is not so easy.  Charlotte gets a lot of people consult her about such things - you can now. A lot of women who are unhappy with their husbands and  realise deep down in their hearts that there is no love there between them and their partner stay anyway.  This is entirely up to them and they may find a way to be content but if they continually long for someone to come along and save them from their life or go to psychics asking them to predict when they will be happy they are getting it all wrong.  Choosing to stay usually means choosing the road to unhappiness so luck will not come along to change that.  The unhappy person has to make decisions and then follow through with actions so that things change not wait for other people or luck to do it for them.

 

With hundreds of pages of free advice by experts lots of people have come to this free agony aunties online  site as sad, unhappy, worried individuals, unable to turn to friends or family, or needing to be discreet, got expert advice from our team, experts at problem solving, and are now leading a very happy life with a good marriage. Many of them consult our experts at ask agony aunt for a one to one consultation.  Most of the people who come to this site do so because they are wise enough to realise they do not have the experience, knowledge and wisdom needed to sort out their situations and they want to consult us and get us to solve it for them. Being wise is not always about knowing all of the answers  -     it is also wise to know your limitations.   Peoples'   free   bulletin board  -     please read our gratuitous words of wisdom

 

Marriage advice column.