Find a rich man. Read our professional expert articles for free and consult us individually. A lot of young women (and some older ones) have this fantasy of finding this wealthy guy who will come along and worship them and take care of them. One of the clients I spoke to a few days ago said to me that she is living with her parents, she hates it there. She has never worked but she takes care of her guinea pigs and rabbits and sits around watching television inbetween eating cheese sandwiches and emailing penfriends. She is in her 50s yet she is very much like a teenager in her mind. She worries that when her parents die she will be alone with nobody to take care of her and nobody to keep her company so she has got it into her head that she must get a wealthy guy to come along and sort this for her. The trouble is that she is not being realistic because she is a virgin who hates sex, she is not really into men, she does not make herself pretty or get her hair done or wear nice clothes, she has lived with her parents so long and spent most of her time with the guinea pigs so she cannot really hold an intelligent or interesting conversation with anyone and she rarely goes out. She is unlikely to meet such a person and even if she did meet them she would not be their type.
The type that these guys go for are the sexy siren type who know about the World and who know how to pleasure a guy. They are far more likely to go for a female who wears short skirts and low cut tops and who has been around a bit and who has a bit of class and a wicked streak. You have to remember that these guys have got to where they are and accumulated money by working hard and being smart, not by falling for sob stories or by helping out people who are lonely or in need. When they choose a wife or a girlfriend they will be looking for someone who ticks all of the boxes. If the guy wanted someone who would spend all day taking care of guinea pigs he could buy a pet shop and hire someone to work there all day. He would not want to live with them or fall in love with them. He is not looking for someone who he can take care of he is looking for someone who makes him happy and pleasures him and a man who has a lot of money can be a lot fussier, he gets a lot more offers.
When Ivana Trump was married to Donald they were quite happy for a while but then he had a bit of a roving eye and he would get girls pushing their phone numbers into his jacket pocket and after a lot of rows and problems Ivana decided to call it a day with him because she knew that he was so exciting and so wealthy he could do what he wanted when he wanted and would never be short of offers. She was also bright enough to figure that if she could not keep him faithful while their relationship was young and fresh she had no chance of doing that twenty years down the line when they were bored with each other and she was much older.
Most guys who have a lot of money are used to travelling, used to the best, used to going out a lot. He is not looking for someone who wants to stay at home all of the time nor for someone who is only wanting to latch onto him because he has more money than her. Just as you fancy a man with money you have to be able to offer him something in return and offering to take care of his pets or cook him a dinner will not do the trick. He will have already meet spongers and gold diggers and bimbos in the past, he is fed up with meeting them. But if you have a phd in engineering or have had a book published then maybe you will attract his attention because then you have something in common, you are both smart and both hard working and he would know that you are not just another gold digger. If you are sexy and beautiful and dress sexily then you might interest him for a short time but it would not be long before you are one of his exs and he has moved on to one with more novelty. So you need to be able to offer him more than just youth and looks to keep him. Please feel free to use our blackboard centre, also our extra support here.
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